Mishaps and Ramblings

11 December, 2012

Significant Other Survey

I'm going to pretend that I stole this from Martika... but in all actuality I found it for her and she just happened to post hers before I did mine.

How did it all begin?
We've known each other ages. Met almost 10 years ago at a family get together, he was working for my grandfather at the time. We hit it off as friends pretty quickly, growing closer as the years passed. But in the last 2 yrs, we'd gotten substantially closer. He'd been going through a rough patch in life and relationship-wise. I was getting out of a long distance relationship, and dealing with uni. We were always there for one another and I think finally it just dawned on us that what we wanted had been there right under our noses. So we started talking more and spending more time together and well....now here we are. (Yesh, Marti... I quoted RENT.... get over it xP )

Was it love at first sight?
No, there is no such thing.

How old were you both?
He was 32 and I was 21.

Where was your first date?
We went to a Dethklok concert... such a great first date, right?

When was it official?
I guess we made it official around Thanksgiving 2012 .

The good…

What's your happiest memory of him?
I have so many happy memories with him, I can't just pick one.

Whats the sweetest thing he has ever done for you?
He's done a lot of really sweet things, even before we were dating.

What's your favorite thing to do together?
Just hang out and be us.

Who said I love you first?
Neither of us has outright said it yet.

The bad…

Whats his worst habit?
He tends to lose confidence in himself.

Has he ever hurt you badly?
No, he’s made me upset now and then.

Would he ever cheat?
He's not the type of person to do that. He's been cheated on, like I have, so he knows how it feels.

Do you trust him?
Yes.

The ugly….

Best facial feature?
His smile is cute.

Favorite part of his body?
Arms, I love when he holds me tight. And his chest, I love being able to hear his heartbeat and listen to him breath when he sleeps. x3

Hair colour?
Gingery-blondish.

What does he smell of?
Just him, he just has his own smell.

Whats he wearing when you picture him in your head?
Jeans and a concert t-shirt.

Deep and meaningful…

Do you think about him constantly when your apart?
Pretty much, he always pops into my head.

How long have you been together?
Not that long.

Is he your best friend as well as your lover?
Pretty much. I have my girl best friends but he is also like a best friend.

On a lighter note…

Whats the funniest thing you have ever done together?
I’m not sure. Whenever we are together something funny happens.

Say something that only you two understand
There's a house... and it's surrounded by trees.

Do you have nick names for each other?
He calls me Spaz, Little Dove, Sweetheart, and Rach. I tend to call him by his full name, Jon, hun, or lovey.

Does he make you laugh?
All the time.

Do you wrestle?
Occasionally.

Is he tickelish?
Yes.

Are you?
Very much so.

His Favorites…

Food?
Anything home-cooked.

Drink?
Coffee

Past time?
Drinking (not anymore tho), Marching band, metal concerts, gaming

Band?
He doesn't really have a favourite that I know of, he loves all kinds of metal bands.

Music?
Metal

Your things….

Song?
Bless the Broken Road.

DVD?
Anything nerdy/ geeky suits us just fine.

Place to hang out?
Anywhere. Usually his apartment or my place.

Lasts…

Time you saw him?
Two weekends ago.

Kissed him?
Haven't yet.

Spoke to him?
1000

The last text he sent you?
”Good morning sweetheart! Hope you're feeling better and that the dreams were sweet."

When will you…

See him again?
Hopefully this weekend.

Speak to him again?
Later tonight or tomorrow.

Have you ever?

Spent the night together?
Many times.

Celebrated a holiday together?
Yes.

Met his parents?
Yeah.

Made him cry?
No.

Done anything spontaneous together?
Yep.

Is this love?
For me. Yes.

10 December, 2012

Ayup, trying to make up for some of the ranty blogs...

How are you? I'm ill... exhausted because I stayed up til 330 talking to someone, and slightly depressed...
Are you really okay? .... meh
Do you enjoy being single? No...
Are you crushing on someone? I am
Do they like you back? Yesh
If so, why are you not with them? ... I am, just not physically atm
What’s their name? Jonathan
Do you think high-school relationships can last? Some can
Do you remember your first crush? I do
Have you ever been in love? I have.
Does anyone love you? Yesh
Do you think there is a difference between love and lust? Yesh
When will you next see the person you like? Hoping for next weekend...
How does it feel when your crush doesn't like you back? It hurts...
Is their anyone you couldn't live without? There are several
Who is the last person you hugged? My mum
Do you like this person? Ofc I do, she's my mum afterall
Who is the last person you slow-danced with? It was Jonathan... at a Cannibal Corpse concert of all places
Do you like this person? I do, very much so.
Do you think a marriage can last forever? Of the people are truly right for one another
Would you like to get married? One day
Do you get shy around guys/girls you are crushing on? Little bit, yeah
Do you think you can know everything about a person? No.
Do you love your friends? I do
Have you dated anyone of your best friends? Yesh.
Do you get along better with guys/girls? Meh, both pretty equally
Is your perfect guy somewhere out there or just a fantasy? He's out there... quite possibly right under my nose too.
Are you bored? Why do you think I'm doing this quiz?
Who makes you happiest? Jonathan, Martika, Jess...
When was the last time you had butterfly’s? Couple night's ago I guess
Do you think you will be single in the next 3 months? I seriously hope not.
Have you ever asked anyone out? Yep, didn't go so well
Have you ever been on a date? I've been on several
Kiss on first date? Deoends
What puts you off to the opposite sex? Cockyness, overly flirty, overly shy
What do you find attractive? A lot of things...
Have any celebrity crushes? Corey Taylor, Gerard Butler, Ewan McGregor, Liam Neeson, Viggo Mortensen
Are you thinking about your crush now? Well, now I am ... thanks for bringing it up. xD

Psychology Survey

Rules are as follows: As soon as you read a question, write the answer right away. Read the following questions, imagining the scenes in your mind, and write down the FIRST thing that you visualize. Do NOT think about the questions excessively.

1. You are walking in the woods. Who are you walking with?
Jonathan.
2. You are walking in the woods. You see an animal. What kind of animal is it?
Deer.
3. What interaction takes place between you and the animal?
Look at it and slowly walk towards it.
4. You walk deeper in the woods. You enter a clearing and before you is your Dream House. Describe its size.
Medium size.
5. Is your dream house surrounded by a fence?
Yes.
6. You enter the house. You walk to the dining area and see the dining table. Describe what you see on AND around the table.
Some books, pen/paper, vase of lilies, and misc food. Four wooden chairs around the table.
7. You exit the house through the back door. Lying in the grass is a cup. What material is the cup made of?
Metal.
8. What do you do with the cup?
Pick it up.
9. You walk to the edge of the property, where you find yourself standing at the edge of a body of water. What type of body of water is is it?
A large lake, with clear greenish-blue water.
10. How will you cross the water?
Walk into it and swim across.
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Results:
This has been a relational psychology test. The answers given to the questions have been shown to have a relevance to values and ideals that we hold in our personal lives. The analysis follows:

1. The person who you are walking with is the most important person in your life.
2. The size of the animal is representative of your perception of the size of your problems.
3. The severity of the interaction you have with the animal is representative of how you deal with your problems. (passive/aggressive)
4. The size of your dream house is representative of the size of your ambition to resolve your problems.
5. No fence is indicative of an open personality. People are welcome at all times. The presence of a fence indicates a closed personality. You’d prefer people not to drop by unannounced.
6. If your answer did not include food, people, or flowers, then you are generally unhappy.
7. The durability of the material with which the cup is made of is representative of the perceived durability of your relationship with the person named in number 1. For example, styrafoam, plastic, and paper are all disposable, styrofoam, paper and glass are not durable, and metal and plastic are durable.
8. Your disposition of the cup is representative of your attitude towards the person in number 1.
9. The size of the body of water is representative of the size of your desire for love.
10. How wet you get in crossing the water is indicative of the relative importance of your love life.

---Well that was fun.

Bleh... that was "fun"

I’m guessing you’ve probably been asked this before, but which do you prefer - Coca Cola, or Pepsi?
- Pepsi

Do you think the last person you texted is a virgin? (You don’t have to tell us who the person is, just say yes or no.)
- No, she is definitely not

Has your phone ever gone off in the middle of a class at school?
- A few times, yeah.

What’s your relationship with the last person you talked to on the phone? What was your conversation about?
- My dad, he wanted to make sure that supper was ready and that the door was unlocked.

In your phone’s contacts, who is the second person listed under the letter ‘R’? What is that person’s favourite drink?
- Reena... and I have no idea.

Do you miss anyone? If so, tell me about this person you miss.
- I miss Jon. I talk to him almost everyday, but the fact that I only get to see him every other week if I'm lucky makes me miss him more.

Has the last person you texted, ever been in your bedroom?
- No, she hasn't.

The last time you washed your hair, did you use conditioner?
- Yes.

Do you prefer light or dark jeans?
- Dark.

Do you have an item of clothing that reminds you of someone? Tell me about it, and the person it reminds you of.
- Yes, a few things, Cannibal Corpse concert shirt and a Mothman Festival .... all things I went to with Jonathan. xD

If the last girl you texted told you that she was pregnant, how would you respond?
- I'd probably smack her. It's too early for her to have another lil one.

How old is the last male you texted?
- 32.

How would you react if your mother told you that she was pregnant again?
- I'd say it's a miracle, because it's physically impossible.

Who do you have the most text messages from?
- Jonathan, Martika, and Jessica.

The last time you skipped school, what was the reason?
- I skipped the last day of uni to go to Mothman with Jon this past September.

When was the last time you visited the doctor?
- May.

When did you last see or speak to someone you dislike? Why do you dislike this person?
- I didn't directly talk to her. It was more she messaged me, in a very rude Facebook message and I gave her quite a rebuttal.

Do you know anyone who deserves to be slapped? Why?
- I know of several... 3 of which I'd love to slap them myself.

When you listen to music, do you generally sing along, or just listen?
- Both.

Do you have any of your exes as friends on Facebook?
- One of them.

Would you have sex with the last person that poked you on Facebook?
- No.

Does more than one person like you?
- I seriously doubt it.

Do you ever worry that people might be talking about you behind your back?
- Yeah, but I don’t really care.

Who is the youngest person in your household? When is that person’s birthday?
- My brother and in February.

Has your partner ever accused you of cheating, when you actually didn't?
- Yesh. Oddly enough it was the other way around.

Who was your first love? Do you ever miss that person?
- James, or at the time I truly thought it was. And not anymore. Tho it was really awkward to run into him at the Cannibal Corpse concert.

What is a word that starts with the second to last letter of your name?
- Onomatopoeia.

Do you like your middle name?
- Meh, it could be worse.

What is your favourite insult for someone you don’t like?
- Oh, I have many.

Would you ever visit a psychic?
- I have, and would again. xD

You log into Facebook and see the red ‘1’ notification next to the message icon. Who do you want it to be?
- Just going to say it has to do with Jon.

Let’s say I was going to make you something to eat, what would you like? :)
- Chocolate, cookies maybe.

And what drink would you like with that?
- Coffee.

Do you know anyone with the same first name as you? Tell me about him/her.
- Nope.

If your hair is long, would you ever think about having it cut short? Or, if it’s short, would you like to grow it long?
- It’s rather long now, and no I like it long.

Can you remember the last time you felt emotional? What was the reason?
- Emm, Saturday morning. A good friend of the family passed away.

Do you call your partner ‘baby’?
- No, I call him hun or love most of the time.

What if you were told that your life has to stay exactly as it is right now, and nothing will ever change? How would you feel about that?
- I would hate that and probably die. I cannot deal with it being like it is now. Everything is pretty much falling apart/ dying around me. I don't like it.