So, I have come to terms with the fact that no one really reads this blog anymore. Doesn't surprise me. It's nothing great. I don't even have time to update it regularly. My bad. It's called a busy, and very hectic schedule. But I'm still going to post on occasion, at least updates. I may start another section/ blog that is focused on my wedding planning adventures, body positivity, and maybe even one that is focused on massage therapy and my adventures in that along with my upcoming adventures in nursing school. Maybe. Big maybes.
But, as mentioned above, I'm getting ready to go back to school to get my ADN. It should only take about 2 years. Which means, I can continue to do what I do now, and then once I'm done, get a nursing job, and then go back , possibly, for my BSN.. maybe later on down the road if need be. It's all gonna depend on when Jon and I plan to start a family, which I won't lie, we both want to as soon as possible. ( He swears we're going to have twins the very first go around. o.o) We're hoping to wait until after the wedding, I say hoping because anything can happen. xD
Emm, news on the wedding, as of right now, there is actually quite a bit. Our first choice for the ceremony venue fell through. They were requiring us to have BOTH the ceremony and the reception at their site. However, we've had the reception venue picked out since day one more or less. But, that's ok, we found this wonderful little church in Maumee, and it's half the price that our first choice was. Score. We have our officiant, the wonderful family friend, Mr. Woods. I have my dress, which I'm currently holding off paying for, simply so that I can get another 6 months of them holding on to it. Because the girl apparently screwed up and it was ordered WAY too early. Moron. xD Hmm, other than that, we have some decoration ideas, not nothing really set in stone other than purple, blue, and peacock feathers. Otherwise, it's kinda whatever I find on Pinterest that I find well, interesting. ^.^
Jon and I went and saw my favorite movie on the big screen this past Sunday. Gone with the Wind. It has been my absolute favorite movie and probably book for that matter, for as long as I can remember. Meant a lot to me to have him willingly sit through an almost 4 hour movie ( we'll call it 4, since it's only shy by 2 mins. xD ) and not complain about it.
Umm, other than that. I've just been really busy with work, and such. Added more hours to my schedule, you know because that goes well with school. xD Anywho. I think that's enough for now. Yep. ^.^
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01 October, 2014
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10 June, 2014
Proposal related wonders...
As promised a much happier post this time around. As anyone who reads this blog knows, Jon and I got engaged back in March. However, at the time, we didn't have a ring. Well, we finally found one we loved. So when it came last week, he couldn't wait to re-propose and get the damn thing on my finger. So we went out to one of our favorite restaurants and he re-proposed to me. It was really sweet. We both ended up crying and being all sappy. On the way home, we couldn't figure out why we were such saps about it. The only thing we could come up with is that it was that it was an actual proposal this time around. He actually got on one knee, had a ring, and asked me. Which makes sense. It makes it more real.
Now this story has a slight bitter bit to it. The proposal happened last week, on Friday. So, I've had the ring for a little over a week. We noticed that the Rhodium plating of the black gold was coming off already. Now, after doing some research we found that it was pretty common, especially if the plating process was faulty. So it was very likely that was the problem. I had made sure specifically not to wash my hands with it on, use heavy cleaners, or anything like that. Anything that might destroy the integrity of the ring. Yet, the plating was coming off in less than a week. We had to call the jeweler and see what could be done. They offered to completely re-plate it again and see if it would help. But we ultimately opted to exchange it for the white gold version of the same style ring. So now it's a waiting game of them getting the old ring back, and them sending the new one to us. It feels so weird to not be able to wear my ring. I know its only been a week since I got it, but my finger feels so naked now.
Here's hoping that it is sent to us with great haste, and we have no problems with the new one. So overall, there is a happy ending to the whole story overall. ^.^ Well, dearies. I shall be off. Toodles for now.
Now this story has a slight bitter bit to it. The proposal happened last week, on Friday. So, I've had the ring for a little over a week. We noticed that the Rhodium plating of the black gold was coming off already. Now, after doing some research we found that it was pretty common, especially if the plating process was faulty. So it was very likely that was the problem. I had made sure specifically not to wash my hands with it on, use heavy cleaners, or anything like that. Anything that might destroy the integrity of the ring. Yet, the plating was coming off in less than a week. We had to call the jeweler and see what could be done. They offered to completely re-plate it again and see if it would help. But we ultimately opted to exchange it for the white gold version of the same style ring. So now it's a waiting game of them getting the old ring back, and them sending the new one to us. It feels so weird to not be able to wear my ring. I know its only been a week since I got it, but my finger feels so naked now.
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The original ring |
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What the new ring shall be |
Here's hoping that it is sent to us with great haste, and we have no problems with the new one. So overall, there is a happy ending to the whole story overall. ^.^ Well, dearies. I shall be off. Toodles for now.
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08 May, 2014
Sorry, but not sorry...
So I have a small rant to deal with here. I'm planning a wedding, I assume my readers know this. I got engaged, so the next logical thing is to start planning a wedding. Right? ...Right.
That being said, I have to keep in mind that my parents want to pay for this event, minus the wedding gown, I flat out told them I would be paying for that, so that I get the complete and final say in that. So like I said, keeping in mind that my parents are paying for it, I want to keep the cost as low as possible. One way to do this is to have a very small wedding, and by small, I mean less than 100 people. Jon and I just want close friends and family, that is all. No people we barely know, no people who are for lack of a better term, Facebook friends. I can't do it, I can't invite every person we know, it would cost a fortune.
I don't want my parents to break the bank on this event. Yes, I know that it's supposed to be a grand affair, it's supposed to be beautiful, it's supposed to be about Jon and I, but I would feel horrible to make my family pay a fortune for it. I'm not that materialistic as that.
What Jon and I decided, please read that again, it distinctly says Jon AND I . We made the decision to only invite our close family, and closest friends. That being said, that means that there are a few people who will be invited, but not their significant other. Mostly because Jon and I don't know said significant other, and guess what? A wedding is so not the time or place to get to know your friend's significant other, it's just not. No amount or arguing, complaining, or whining about it is going to change that. I'd say that I'm sorry that these particular people are not and will not be invited, but I'm not and neither is Jon. Because, again, it is OUR wedding. If you want to invite 300 people to YOUR wedding, then you do that; however, I will not be guilt tripped into inviting these people that we don't know to a wedding.
I think that people assume that we are singling them out and being "mean" to them and their significant other. And to be honest, it is nothing of the sort. It all boils down to the cost and the lack of a true connection/ friendship with these people. I'm not going to feel sorry for that, I'm just not. If you're going to take this as a personal vendetta against you and your significant other, that's your prerogative. To each, his own, as it were.
What I love even more about this, is that people who were so set on being there, because they are so happy for us, because they are a close friend and wanted to share in such an important day in my life have since changed their tune. Now that it is known that only very close friends and family will be invited, they no longer want to come. I'm the bad guy for planning the wedding of Jon's and my dreams. Is that so wrong? Apparently the answer must be yes, I mean if I'm offending these people so much. Last I checked, I never told anyone else how to plan their wedding, and never once complained if my significant other was not invited, and neither did Jon. we understand with the economy it just not frugal to invite everyone and their mother to your wedding, especially not for a budget wedding.
And please note, we aren't just inviting our friends and not their significant other, I can tell you right now, my younger brother is invited, however his little girlfriend is not. Granted, yes there are reasons that she is not invited. Mostly because there is some serious tension and dislike between my family and her's, but that is neither here nor there. I'm just stating there we're not just doing it to friend's, we're doing it to family too. It's not anything against anyone, we have a budget and we HAVE to stick to it. End of story. No ifs, ands, or buts. Not sorry. Get over it. I'll be hurt, not gonna lie, I want my close friends and family there, but if you decide not to come to our wedding, your loss, not mine. I will have a wonderful wedding with the people who truly care about us and that is all I have to say about it. The end.
That being said, I have to keep in mind that my parents want to pay for this event, minus the wedding gown, I flat out told them I would be paying for that, so that I get the complete and final say in that. So like I said, keeping in mind that my parents are paying for it, I want to keep the cost as low as possible. One way to do this is to have a very small wedding, and by small, I mean less than 100 people. Jon and I just want close friends and family, that is all. No people we barely know, no people who are for lack of a better term, Facebook friends. I can't do it, I can't invite every person we know, it would cost a fortune.
I don't want my parents to break the bank on this event. Yes, I know that it's supposed to be a grand affair, it's supposed to be beautiful, it's supposed to be about Jon and I, but I would feel horrible to make my family pay a fortune for it. I'm not that materialistic as that.
What Jon and I decided, please read that again, it distinctly says Jon AND I . We made the decision to only invite our close family, and closest friends. That being said, that means that there are a few people who will be invited, but not their significant other. Mostly because Jon and I don't know said significant other, and guess what? A wedding is so not the time or place to get to know your friend's significant other, it's just not. No amount or arguing, complaining, or whining about it is going to change that. I'd say that I'm sorry that these particular people are not and will not be invited, but I'm not and neither is Jon. Because, again, it is OUR wedding. If you want to invite 300 people to YOUR wedding, then you do that; however, I will not be guilt tripped into inviting these people that we don't know to a wedding.
I think that people assume that we are singling them out and being "mean" to them and their significant other. And to be honest, it is nothing of the sort. It all boils down to the cost and the lack of a true connection/ friendship with these people. I'm not going to feel sorry for that, I'm just not. If you're going to take this as a personal vendetta against you and your significant other, that's your prerogative. To each, his own, as it were.
What I love even more about this, is that people who were so set on being there, because they are so happy for us, because they are a close friend and wanted to share in such an important day in my life have since changed their tune. Now that it is known that only very close friends and family will be invited, they no longer want to come. I'm the bad guy for planning the wedding of Jon's and my dreams. Is that so wrong? Apparently the answer must be yes, I mean if I'm offending these people so much. Last I checked, I never told anyone else how to plan their wedding, and never once complained if my significant other was not invited, and neither did Jon. we understand with the economy it just not frugal to invite everyone and their mother to your wedding, especially not for a budget wedding.
And please note, we aren't just inviting our friends and not their significant other, I can tell you right now, my younger brother is invited, however his little girlfriend is not. Granted, yes there are reasons that she is not invited. Mostly because there is some serious tension and dislike between my family and her's, but that is neither here nor there. I'm just stating there we're not just doing it to friend's, we're doing it to family too. It's not anything against anyone, we have a budget and we HAVE to stick to it. End of story. No ifs, ands, or buts. Not sorry. Get over it. I'll be hurt, not gonna lie, I want my close friends and family there, but if you decide not to come to our wedding, your loss, not mine. I will have a wonderful wedding with the people who truly care about us and that is all I have to say about it. The end.
02 May, 2014
I've missed doing these apparently.
1. Are looks important in a relationship? I can't lie and say they're not... anyone who says they're not is lying.
2. Are relationships ever worth it? Ayup
3. Are you a virgin? No
4. Are you in a relationship? I am, and I'm engaged too.
5. Are you in love? I am, madly in love.
6. Are you single this year? NOPE
7. Can you commit to one person? I can, and I am.
8. Describe your crush He's perfect, literally perfect in every way for me.
9. Describe your perfect mate Jonathan
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? Nope, doesn't exist.
11. Do you ever want to get married? I do. And I am, next autumn
12. Do you forgive betrayal? Depends on the situation.
13. Do you get jealous easily? I can
14. Do you have a crush on anyone? Jon
15. Do you have any piercings? Yep, all in my ears
16. Do you have any tattoos? Nope, not yet.
17. Do you like kissing in public? Mhm
20. Do you shower every day? I try to, but at least every other day for sure.
21. Do you think someone has feelings for you? I know Jon does
22. Do you think someone is thinking about you right now? Jon might be if he's not completely focused on work
23. Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months and not cheat? Yes.
24. Do you think you’ll be married in 5 years? I'll be married next autumn
25. Do you want to be in a relationship this year? I am in a relationship
26. Has anyone told you they don’t want to ever lose you? Yep, yep
27. Has someone ever written a song or poem for you? Not that I know of
28. Have you ever been cheated on? Yes v.v
29. Have you ever cheated on someone? No, could never do that to another person
30. Have you ever considered plastic surgery? If so, what would you change about your body? Nope, never truly considered it.
31. Have you ever cried over a guy/girl? Yesh
32. Have you ever experienced unrequited love? ...yeah...
33. Have you ever had sex with a man? Only one, just Jon.
34. Have you ever had sex with a woman? Nope, not my kind of thing.
35. Have you ever kissed someone older than you? Jon's older than me, so yeah.
36. Have you ever liked one of your best friends? Yep.
37. Have you ever liked someone who your friends hated? Yeah, surprisingly
38. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to? Mhm
39. Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have? Yeah
40. Have you ever written a song or poem for someone? I have, I love doing that sort of thing
41. Have you had sex so far this year? Yes, of course
42. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander? Depends on the situation, usually not very long
43. How long was your longest relationship? This one... and it's the forever relationship too.
44. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had? Including Jon... 4
45. How many people did you kiss in 2012/2013? Like romantically kiss... just Jon
46. How many times did you have sex last year? I lost count a long time ago
47. How old are you? 22 going on 23
48. If the person you like says they like someone else, what would you say? I'd be too heartbroken to say anything
49. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what is your favorite thing about him/her? EVERYTHING
50. If your first true love knocked on your door with apology and presents, would you accept? Sure, it's been long enough that the apology would be nice.
51. Is there a boy/girl who you would do absolutely everything for? Jon
52. Is there anyone you’ve given up on? Why? A few people, doesn't matter why anymore
53. Is there someone mad because you’re dating/talking to the person you are? Not that I know of, or care enough about to care if they are...
54. Is there someone you will never forget? Yep, dick.
55. Share a relationship story. Jon's and my first date was to a metal concert, Dethklok to be exact.
56. State 8 facts about your body --Freckles, red hair, chubby/ dimpled, small hands, brown eyes, oddly shaped, we have a love/hate relationship, pale skin.... yay!
57. Things you want to say to an ex ... I no longer have anything to say to asshat.
58. What are five ways to win your heart? Have a sense of humor, listen and actually listen, talk about books, or nerdy things, give awesome hugs, put up with my goofy randomness.
59. What do you look like? (Post a picture!)
60. What is the biggest age difference between you and any of your partners? There's 11.5 years between Jon and I.
61. What is the first thing you notice in someone? Smile, and eyes.
62. What is the sexiest thing someone could ever do for/to you? Whatever Jon does... it's all pretty damn sexy. xD
63. What is your definition of “having sex”? I guess it's the general idea of sex, is what I'd go with
64. What is your definition of cheating? Any physical or mental straying from your partner
65. What is your favourite foreplay routine? No telling
66. What is your favourite roleplay? .... again, not telling
67. What is your idea of the perfect date? Metal concert, and food after, going to the movies, taking a walk, or just sitting at home with one another.
68. What is your sexual orientation? Straight.
69. What turns you off? Douche-bags, overly cocky guys, etc.
70. What turns you on? Emm, I feel like I keep answering the same response... Jon xD
71. What was your kinkiest wet dream? I don't know
72. What words do you like to hear during sex? The normal sounds... sighs and moans...
73. What’s something sweet you’d like someone to do for you? I like getting flowers, or having meals made for me...
74. What’s the most superficial characteristic you look for? I dunno
75. What’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever done for you? Jon proposed... I'd say that's pretty damn sweet.
76. What’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for someone? I've gotten Jon some really awesome concert tickets and sappy cards, letters, and poems. xD
77. What’s your opinion on age differences in relationships? Age is just a number.
78. What’s your dirtiest secret? I don't know...
79. When was the last time you felt jealous? Why? Probably when Jessica ( Jon's cousin) was showing off her engagement ring, and I don't have one yet. Was a little jealous.
80. When was the last time you told someone you loved them? Earlier today
81. Who are five people you find attractive? Jon, Viggo Mortensen, Jonathan Rhys-Meyers, Gerard Butler, and Kit Harrington
82. Who is the last person you hugged? Jon
83. Who was your first kiss with? .... Nope, not going there
84. Why did your last relationship fail? He was a dick... and it took me way too long to realize it, and he hurt me more than anyone else ever has.
85. Would you ever date someone off of the Internet? Part of the back story to #84... allow to be blunt... NEVER again...
2. Are relationships ever worth it? Ayup
3. Are you a virgin? No
4. Are you in a relationship? I am, and I'm engaged too.
5. Are you in love? I am, madly in love.
6. Are you single this year? NOPE
7. Can you commit to one person? I can, and I am.
8. Describe your crush He's perfect, literally perfect in every way for me.
9. Describe your perfect mate Jonathan
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? Nope, doesn't exist.
11. Do you ever want to get married? I do. And I am, next autumn
12. Do you forgive betrayal? Depends on the situation.
13. Do you get jealous easily? I can
14. Do you have a crush on anyone? Jon
15. Do you have any piercings? Yep, all in my ears
16. Do you have any tattoos? Nope, not yet.
17. Do you like kissing in public? Mhm
20. Do you shower every day? I try to, but at least every other day for sure.
21. Do you think someone has feelings for you? I know Jon does
22. Do you think someone is thinking about you right now? Jon might be if he's not completely focused on work
23. Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months and not cheat? Yes.
24. Do you think you’ll be married in 5 years? I'll be married next autumn
25. Do you want to be in a relationship this year? I am in a relationship
26. Has anyone told you they don’t want to ever lose you? Yep, yep
27. Has someone ever written a song or poem for you? Not that I know of
28. Have you ever been cheated on? Yes v.v
29. Have you ever cheated on someone? No, could never do that to another person
30. Have you ever considered plastic surgery? If so, what would you change about your body? Nope, never truly considered it.
31. Have you ever cried over a guy/girl? Yesh
32. Have you ever experienced unrequited love? ...yeah...
33. Have you ever had sex with a man? Only one, just Jon.
34. Have you ever had sex with a woman? Nope, not my kind of thing.
35. Have you ever kissed someone older than you? Jon's older than me, so yeah.
36. Have you ever liked one of your best friends? Yep.
37. Have you ever liked someone who your friends hated? Yeah, surprisingly
38. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to? Mhm
39. Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have? Yeah
40. Have you ever written a song or poem for someone? I have, I love doing that sort of thing
41. Have you had sex so far this year? Yes, of course
42. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander? Depends on the situation, usually not very long
43. How long was your longest relationship? This one... and it's the forever relationship too.
44. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had? Including Jon... 4
45. How many people did you kiss in 2012/2013? Like romantically kiss... just Jon
46. How many times did you have sex last year? I lost count a long time ago
47. How old are you? 22 going on 23
48. If the person you like says they like someone else, what would you say? I'd be too heartbroken to say anything
49. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what is your favorite thing about him/her? EVERYTHING
50. If your first true love knocked on your door with apology and presents, would you accept? Sure, it's been long enough that the apology would be nice.
51. Is there a boy/girl who you would do absolutely everything for? Jon
52. Is there anyone you’ve given up on? Why? A few people, doesn't matter why anymore
53. Is there someone mad because you’re dating/talking to the person you are? Not that I know of, or care enough about to care if they are...
54. Is there someone you will never forget? Yep, dick.
55. Share a relationship story. Jon's and my first date was to a metal concert, Dethklok to be exact.
56. State 8 facts about your body --Freckles, red hair, chubby/ dimpled, small hands, brown eyes, oddly shaped, we have a love/hate relationship, pale skin.... yay!
57. Things you want to say to an ex ... I no longer have anything to say to asshat.
58. What are five ways to win your heart? Have a sense of humor, listen and actually listen, talk about books, or nerdy things, give awesome hugs, put up with my goofy randomness.
59. What do you look like? (Post a picture!)
60. What is the biggest age difference between you and any of your partners? There's 11.5 years between Jon and I.
61. What is the first thing you notice in someone? Smile, and eyes.
62. What is the sexiest thing someone could ever do for/to you? Whatever Jon does... it's all pretty damn sexy. xD
63. What is your definition of “having sex”? I guess it's the general idea of sex, is what I'd go with
64. What is your definition of cheating? Any physical or mental straying from your partner
65. What is your favourite foreplay routine? No telling
66. What is your favourite roleplay? .... again, not telling
67. What is your idea of the perfect date? Metal concert, and food after, going to the movies, taking a walk, or just sitting at home with one another.
68. What is your sexual orientation? Straight.
69. What turns you off? Douche-bags, overly cocky guys, etc.
70. What turns you on? Emm, I feel like I keep answering the same response... Jon xD
71. What was your kinkiest wet dream? I don't know
72. What words do you like to hear during sex? The normal sounds... sighs and moans...
73. What’s something sweet you’d like someone to do for you? I like getting flowers, or having meals made for me...
74. What’s the most superficial characteristic you look for? I dunno
75. What’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever done for you? Jon proposed... I'd say that's pretty damn sweet.
76. What’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for someone? I've gotten Jon some really awesome concert tickets and sappy cards, letters, and poems. xD
77. What’s your opinion on age differences in relationships? Age is just a number.
78. What’s your dirtiest secret? I don't know...
79. When was the last time you felt jealous? Why? Probably when Jessica ( Jon's cousin) was showing off her engagement ring, and I don't have one yet. Was a little jealous.
80. When was the last time you told someone you loved them? Earlier today
81. Who are five people you find attractive? Jon, Viggo Mortensen, Jonathan Rhys-Meyers, Gerard Butler, and Kit Harrington
82. Who is the last person you hugged? Jon
83. Who was your first kiss with? .... Nope, not going there
84. Why did your last relationship fail? He was a dick... and it took me way too long to realize it, and he hurt me more than anyone else ever has.
85. Would you ever date someone off of the Internet? Part of the back story to #84... allow to be blunt... NEVER again...
24 April, 2014
Lots of questions... and I do mean LOTS
1. Who was the last person you held hands with? Jon
2. Are you outgoing or shy? Meh, kinda both
3. Who are you looking forward to seeing? Jess,
4. Are you easy to get along with? Overall, yeah.
5. If you were drunk would the person you like take care of you? Yes, he would.
6. What kind of people are you attracted to? .... Jon... that is all
7. Do you think you’ll be in a relationship two months from now? Ayup.
8. Who from the opposite gender is on your mind? Jon...
9. Does talking about sex make you uncomfortable? Nope.
10. Who was the last person you had a deep conversation with? Martika... other than that, Jon
11. What does the most recent text that you sent say? Cari, making more excuses about the money she owes me.
12. What are your 5 favorite songs right now? Break In ( Halestorm), Familiar Taste of Poison (Halestorm), Thousand Years ( Christina Perri), Let it Go (Disney's Frozen), and Forver (KISS)
13. Do you like it when people play with your hair? Yesh
14. Do you believe in luck and miracles? Sure
15. What good thing happened this summer? I moved from Toledo to Columbus
16. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? Yesh, always yesh.
17. Do you think there is life on other planets? Ayup.
18. Do you still talk to your first crush? Nope.
19. Do you like bubble baths? On occasion, usually only after a long day at work, or if I made a trip to Lush.
20. Do you like your neighbors? I don't know my neighbors.
21. What are you bad habits? A few.
22. Where would you like to travel? Yes.
23. Do you have trust issues? Yep.
24. Favorite part of your daily routine? Other than mischief ( almost a daily routine)... coffee....
25. What part of your body are you most uncomfortable with? My tummy... bleh
26. What do you do when you wake up? Cuddle with Jon.
27. Do you wish your skin was lighter or darker? I like it the way it is.
28. Who are you most comfortable around? Jon, Jess, Marti, Adam and Keanu.
29. Have any of your ex’s told you they regret breaking up? At one point, each of them has...
30. Do you ever want to get married? Yep.
31. If your hair long enough for a pony tail? Yes.
32. Which celebrities would you have a threesome with? Em.. none. I don't like the idea of a threesome.
33. Spell your name with your chin. racghkaell ...... not too shabby.
34. Do you play sports? What sports? Heh, no.
35. Would you rather live without TV or music? TV... I love music too much.
36. Have you ever liked someone and never told them? Yeah.
37. What do you say during awkward silences? I kinda just make the awkward turtle and maybe weird faces.
38. Describe your dream girl/guy? ... Jon....
39. What are your favorite stores to shop in? Lush, Hot Topic, Target, Thrift stores, and ANY bookstore
40. What do you want to do after high school? I am already doing what I love... massage therapy
41. Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance? It really kinda depends on the person and the situation.
42. If your being extremely quiet what does it mean? I'm either extremely tired, pissed off, or just need quiet time.
43. Do you smile at strangers? All the time
44. Trip to outer space or bottom of the ocean? Space!!!
45. What makes you get out of bed in the morning? Either work ( Jon's or mine) or the need for food/coffee
46. What are you paranoid about? Meh, not much
47. Have you ever been high? Yesh
48. Have you ever been drunk? No
49. Have you done anything recently that you hope nobody finds out about? Nope.
50. What was the colour of the last hoodie you wore? It's a reddish-burgundy color.
51. Ever wished you were someone else? Every once in awhile.
52. One thing you wish you could change about yourself? I'd love to be fitter and healthier
53. Favourite makeup brand? Hard Candy, Wet n'Wild, Mark, and Rimmel
54. Favourite store? Bookstores...
55. Favourite blog? I don't really have one... I like a lot of blogs
56. Favourite colour? Purple, Black, Green
57. Favourite food? Homemade food....
58. Last thing you ate? Homemade turkey potpie
59. First thing you ate this morning? Blueberry muffin cereal
60. Ever won a competition? For what? Emm, I won an iPad at one point on YouTube, for commenting on a video
61. Been suspended/expelled? For what? No
62. Been arrested? For what? No.
63. Ever been in love? Yes.
64. Tell us the story of your first kiss? No, I think I'll pass on that.
65. Are you hungry right now? YESH
66. Do you like your tumblr friends more than your real friends? Nah
67. Facebook or Twitter? Facebook
68. Twitter or Tumblr? Tumblr
69. Are you watching tv right now? No.
70. Names of your bestfriends? Jon, Martika, Jess, and Adam
71. Craving something? What? I really want Raising Cane's or KFC
72. What colour are your towels? Teal... I hate them
72. How many pillows do you sleep with? 1
73. Do you sleep with stuffed animals? Nope, I have Jon.
74. How many stuffed animals do you think you have? I have maybe 5... I got rid of a lot of them when I moved.
75. Favourite animal? Moose, or a hedgehog
76. What colour is your underwear? Black
77. Chocolate or Vanilla? Depends
78. Favourite ice cream flavour? Salted Caramel/ Butter Brickle, or chocolate and peanut butter
79. What colour shirt are you wearing? Black
80. What colour pants? Black
81. Favourite tv show? Game of Thrones, Once Upon a Time, Doctor Who, and a few others
82. Favourite movie? Alien, Brave, Frozen, Phantom of the Opera, LoTR
83. Mean Girls or Mean Girls 2? Neither
84. Mean Girls or 21 Jump Street? Neither
85. Favourite character from Mean Girls? ... I have no clue, nor do I care
86. Favourite character from Finding Nemo? Dori
87. First person you talked to today? Jon
88. Last person you talked to today? Jon
89. Name a person you hate? Assaht...
90. Name a person you love? Jon, Martika, Jess...
91. Is there anyone you want to punch in the face right now? I can think of a few.
92. In a fight with someone? Nope
93. How many sweatpants do you have? I own 2 pairs
94. How many sweaters/hoodies do you have? Too many
95. Last movie you watched? Riding in Cars with Boys
96. Favourite actress? Jennifer Lawrence .. love her to death
97. Favourite actor? Viggo Mortensen.... yum
98. Do you tan a lot? Pffft, no
99. Have any pets? 4 cats
100. How are you feeling? Tired and pissed off at the moment
101. Do you type fast? Yesh
102. Do you regret anything from your past? A few things
103. Can you spell well? Yes, I can.
104. Do you miss anyone from your past? A few people
105. Ever been to a bonfire party? Yes
106. Ever broken someone’s heart? Yep
107. Have you ever been on a horse? I have...
108. What should you be doing? Taking a shower and finding something to nom on
109. Is something irritating you right now? Afair few things
110. Have you ever liked someone so much it hurt? Yes
111. Do you have trust issues? I think I answered this already, and yes
112. Who was the last person you cried in front of? Jon
113. What was your childhood nickname? Rach, Rachy
114. Have you ever been out of your province/state? Mhm
115. Do you play the Wii? I do... I am a Mario Kart addict
116. Are you listening to music right now? Not at the moment, was listening to Sabaton though
117. Do you like chicken noodle soup? If it;s homemade
118. Do you like Chinese food? I love it.
119. Favourite book? I have a few favs, LoTR, Gemma Doyle Trilogy, Robert Alexander Trilogy ( I could re-read those any day, anything by Lovecraft, H.G. Wells, or Edgar Allan Poe... to name a few
120. Are you afraid of the dark? Not at all
121. Are you mean? ...no... but I can be
122. Is cheating ever okay? NOOOOOOOO
123. Can you keep white shoes clean? No, this is why I own no white shoes
124. Do you believe in love at first sight? Not really
125. Do you believe in true love? I do
126. Are you currently bored? Little bit
127. What makes you happy? Jon, Martika, Jess... chocolate, and Pibb too
128. Would you change your name? My last name.. in fact I will be next fall.
129. What your zodiac sign? Cancer
130. Do you like subway? I LOVE subway
131. Your bestfriend of the opposite sex likes you, what do you do? Not counting Jon, Adam did some time ago, it was kinda awkward for awhile, but we moved past it.
132. Who’s the last person you had a deep conversation with? See #10
133. Favourite lyrics right now? "Daughters of Darkness, Sisters Insane"
134. Can you count to one million? I can, but do I want to? Not at all
135. Dumbest lie you ever told? I don't even now....
136. Do you sleep with your doors open or closed? We have to sleep with the door shut, much to our dismay, because the kitten wants to play when it's bedtime
137. How tall are you? 5'5"
138. Curly or Straight hair? Curly
139. Brunette or Blonde? Brunette
140. Summer or Winter? Summer
141. Night or Day? Night
142. Favourite month? September/ October
143. Are you a vegetarian? Pffft... no
144. Dark, milk or white chocolate? Dark or milk... white isn't actually chocolate
145. Tea or Coffee? Either one is fine, I love both
146. Was today a good day? Meh, not really
147. Mars or Snickers? Mars, is a lot like MilkyWay
148. What’s your favourite quote? On of them is " All that we see or seem, is but a dream within in dream" E.A.P
149. Do you believe in ghosts? Sure
150. Get the closest book next to you, open it to page 42, what’s the first line on that page? "You must come when you are of age, Moirin"
2. Are you outgoing or shy? Meh, kinda both
3. Who are you looking forward to seeing? Jess,
4. Are you easy to get along with? Overall, yeah.
5. If you were drunk would the person you like take care of you? Yes, he would.
6. What kind of people are you attracted to? .... Jon... that is all
7. Do you think you’ll be in a relationship two months from now? Ayup.
8. Who from the opposite gender is on your mind? Jon...
9. Does talking about sex make you uncomfortable? Nope.
10. Who was the last person you had a deep conversation with? Martika... other than that, Jon
11. What does the most recent text that you sent say? Cari, making more excuses about the money she owes me.
12. What are your 5 favorite songs right now? Break In ( Halestorm), Familiar Taste of Poison (Halestorm), Thousand Years ( Christina Perri), Let it Go (Disney's Frozen), and Forver (KISS)
13. Do you like it when people play with your hair? Yesh
14. Do you believe in luck and miracles? Sure
15. What good thing happened this summer? I moved from Toledo to Columbus
16. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? Yesh, always yesh.
17. Do you think there is life on other planets? Ayup.
18. Do you still talk to your first crush? Nope.
19. Do you like bubble baths? On occasion, usually only after a long day at work, or if I made a trip to Lush.
20. Do you like your neighbors? I don't know my neighbors.
21. What are you bad habits? A few.
22. Where would you like to travel? Yes.
23. Do you have trust issues? Yep.
24. Favorite part of your daily routine? Other than mischief ( almost a daily routine)... coffee....
25. What part of your body are you most uncomfortable with? My tummy... bleh
26. What do you do when you wake up? Cuddle with Jon.
27. Do you wish your skin was lighter or darker? I like it the way it is.
28. Who are you most comfortable around? Jon, Jess, Marti, Adam and Keanu.
29. Have any of your ex’s told you they regret breaking up? At one point, each of them has...
30. Do you ever want to get married? Yep.
31. If your hair long enough for a pony tail? Yes.
32. Which celebrities would you have a threesome with? Em.. none. I don't like the idea of a threesome.
33. Spell your name with your chin. racghkaell ...... not too shabby.
34. Do you play sports? What sports? Heh, no.
35. Would you rather live without TV or music? TV... I love music too much.
36. Have you ever liked someone and never told them? Yeah.
37. What do you say during awkward silences? I kinda just make the awkward turtle and maybe weird faces.
38. Describe your dream girl/guy? ... Jon....
39. What are your favorite stores to shop in? Lush, Hot Topic, Target, Thrift stores, and ANY bookstore
40. What do you want to do after high school? I am already doing what I love... massage therapy
41. Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance? It really kinda depends on the person and the situation.
42. If your being extremely quiet what does it mean? I'm either extremely tired, pissed off, or just need quiet time.
43. Do you smile at strangers? All the time
44. Trip to outer space or bottom of the ocean? Space!!!
45. What makes you get out of bed in the morning? Either work ( Jon's or mine) or the need for food/coffee
46. What are you paranoid about? Meh, not much
47. Have you ever been high? Yesh
48. Have you ever been drunk? No
49. Have you done anything recently that you hope nobody finds out about? Nope.
50. What was the colour of the last hoodie you wore? It's a reddish-burgundy color.
51. Ever wished you were someone else? Every once in awhile.
52. One thing you wish you could change about yourself? I'd love to be fitter and healthier
53. Favourite makeup brand? Hard Candy, Wet n'Wild, Mark, and Rimmel
54. Favourite store? Bookstores...
55. Favourite blog? I don't really have one... I like a lot of blogs
56. Favourite colour? Purple, Black, Green
57. Favourite food? Homemade food....
58. Last thing you ate? Homemade turkey potpie
59. First thing you ate this morning? Blueberry muffin cereal
60. Ever won a competition? For what? Emm, I won an iPad at one point on YouTube, for commenting on a video
61. Been suspended/expelled? For what? No
62. Been arrested? For what? No.
63. Ever been in love? Yes.
64. Tell us the story of your first kiss? No, I think I'll pass on that.
65. Are you hungry right now? YESH
66. Do you like your tumblr friends more than your real friends? Nah
67. Facebook or Twitter? Facebook
68. Twitter or Tumblr? Tumblr
69. Are you watching tv right now? No.
70. Names of your bestfriends? Jon, Martika, Jess, and Adam
71. Craving something? What? I really want Raising Cane's or KFC
72. What colour are your towels? Teal... I hate them
72. How many pillows do you sleep with? 1
73. Do you sleep with stuffed animals? Nope, I have Jon.
74. How many stuffed animals do you think you have? I have maybe 5... I got rid of a lot of them when I moved.
75. Favourite animal? Moose, or a hedgehog
76. What colour is your underwear? Black
77. Chocolate or Vanilla? Depends
78. Favourite ice cream flavour? Salted Caramel/ Butter Brickle, or chocolate and peanut butter
79. What colour shirt are you wearing? Black
80. What colour pants? Black
81. Favourite tv show? Game of Thrones, Once Upon a Time, Doctor Who, and a few others
82. Favourite movie? Alien, Brave, Frozen, Phantom of the Opera, LoTR
83. Mean Girls or Mean Girls 2? Neither
84. Mean Girls or 21 Jump Street? Neither
85. Favourite character from Mean Girls? ... I have no clue, nor do I care
86. Favourite character from Finding Nemo? Dori
87. First person you talked to today? Jon
88. Last person you talked to today? Jon
89. Name a person you hate? Assaht...
90. Name a person you love? Jon, Martika, Jess...
91. Is there anyone you want to punch in the face right now? I can think of a few.
92. In a fight with someone? Nope
93. How many sweatpants do you have? I own 2 pairs
94. How many sweaters/hoodies do you have? Too many
95. Last movie you watched? Riding in Cars with Boys
96. Favourite actress? Jennifer Lawrence .. love her to death
97. Favourite actor? Viggo Mortensen.... yum
98. Do you tan a lot? Pffft, no
99. Have any pets? 4 cats
100. How are you feeling? Tired and pissed off at the moment
101. Do you type fast? Yesh
102. Do you regret anything from your past? A few things
103. Can you spell well? Yes, I can.
104. Do you miss anyone from your past? A few people
105. Ever been to a bonfire party? Yes
106. Ever broken someone’s heart? Yep
107. Have you ever been on a horse? I have...
108. What should you be doing? Taking a shower and finding something to nom on
109. Is something irritating you right now? Afair few things
110. Have you ever liked someone so much it hurt? Yes
111. Do you have trust issues? I think I answered this already, and yes
112. Who was the last person you cried in front of? Jon
113. What was your childhood nickname? Rach, Rachy
114. Have you ever been out of your province/state? Mhm
115. Do you play the Wii? I do... I am a Mario Kart addict
116. Are you listening to music right now? Not at the moment, was listening to Sabaton though
117. Do you like chicken noodle soup? If it;s homemade
118. Do you like Chinese food? I love it.
119. Favourite book? I have a few favs, LoTR, Gemma Doyle Trilogy, Robert Alexander Trilogy ( I could re-read those any day, anything by Lovecraft, H.G. Wells, or Edgar Allan Poe... to name a few
120. Are you afraid of the dark? Not at all
121. Are you mean? ...no... but I can be
122. Is cheating ever okay? NOOOOOOOO
123. Can you keep white shoes clean? No, this is why I own no white shoes
124. Do you believe in love at first sight? Not really
125. Do you believe in true love? I do
126. Are you currently bored? Little bit
127. What makes you happy? Jon, Martika, Jess... chocolate, and Pibb too
128. Would you change your name? My last name.. in fact I will be next fall.
129. What your zodiac sign? Cancer
130. Do you like subway? I LOVE subway
131. Your bestfriend of the opposite sex likes you, what do you do? Not counting Jon, Adam did some time ago, it was kinda awkward for awhile, but we moved past it.
132. Who’s the last person you had a deep conversation with? See #10
133. Favourite lyrics right now? "Daughters of Darkness, Sisters Insane"
134. Can you count to one million? I can, but do I want to? Not at all
135. Dumbest lie you ever told? I don't even now....
136. Do you sleep with your doors open or closed? We have to sleep with the door shut, much to our dismay, because the kitten wants to play when it's bedtime
137. How tall are you? 5'5"
138. Curly or Straight hair? Curly
139. Brunette or Blonde? Brunette
140. Summer or Winter? Summer
141. Night or Day? Night
142. Favourite month? September/ October
143. Are you a vegetarian? Pffft... no
144. Dark, milk or white chocolate? Dark or milk... white isn't actually chocolate
145. Tea or Coffee? Either one is fine, I love both
146. Was today a good day? Meh, not really
147. Mars or Snickers? Mars, is a lot like MilkyWay
148. What’s your favourite quote? On of them is " All that we see or seem, is but a dream within in dream" E.A.P
149. Do you believe in ghosts? Sure
150. Get the closest book next to you, open it to page 42, what’s the first line on that page? "You must come when you are of age, Moirin"
14 March, 2014
Adventures of a Dove, her Lion, Panda partner in crime, and a Bear
This isn't so much a update post as it is a set of pictures of my recent adventures.
Pretty fountain, and even prettier Tiffany & Co. we were so close to going in, but decided we weren't appropriately dressed. xD |
He got a hold of my phone. Look at that face, he looks sooo pleased to be out in the sunlight and shopping. |
His epic semi-accidental selfie of the both of us... fantastic |
My beautiful partner in crime. ^.^ |
The best part of Sundays, Suspect Earth band practice. :D
Like I said, not so much an update, more like photos I've decided need to be shared with all my readers. Hopefully I'll have more to write about in the near future. Like Schmidts. German food and adventures (again) in the German Village. Excited for that. I love German food, and this place is supposed to have some of the best in the area. Next time we go out, I'm finding a Korean restaurant, I think Jon would like that.
Jess, Charles has been given the animal name of bear.... just thought I'd point that out.
19 February, 2014
Bedknobs and Broomsticks ... or something like that
It's kinda about time for another more or less bi-monthly update. It works though, I suppose. Better than before where I'd go months with nothing posted here. The mobile app really helps. xD
Well, Valentine's day kinda backfired on me. I went more or less all out on it for Jon, giant Reese's cups, a sappy card/ love letter, and tickets to see Iced Earth ( our couples massage got cancelled). He however, failed to realize it was Valentine's day. Awesome. I love him to death, but damn it, he can be seriously oblivious to the world around him.
Work has been busy, but it's good. I like being busy, even if some nights I swear it's gonna kill me. I dislocated my thumb years ago, and it's weaker than my other thumb, and it likes to pop and crack a lot. So I have to find ways to work around using my thumbs, and drop more elbows, otherwise, I won't last long as a massage therapist.
Jon and I finally got around to going to Half Priced Books.... big mistake. Jess, if you read this.... it's like Ukazoo... only better. We shall go there when you come visit. Along with Cosi for the Sherlock exhibit and of course Lush in either Easton, or Polaris. Yay adventures! But back to Half Priced Books... we spent hours there, and it was awesome. Found Rant by Chuck Palahniuk, Moulin Rouge, and Chicago all for less than $12. Awesome deals.
I made a random trip to Target ( to find those pjs we saw at the one in Toledo, Jess... neither of the ones near me has them ):< ) and found the complete first season of Game of Thrones on BluRay for $30... definite score, usually it's like $50, so I'll take the discount on it I can get. Also managed to snag the Targaryen edition of season three from Best Buy for the same price as season one. Should be here in the near future. Excited for that.
I bought Jess her birthday gift, which she knows about, so I can talk about it. It's an awesome t-shirt. See the pic below if you don't believe me.
Well, Valentine's day kinda backfired on me. I went more or less all out on it for Jon, giant Reese's cups, a sappy card/ love letter, and tickets to see Iced Earth ( our couples massage got cancelled). He however, failed to realize it was Valentine's day. Awesome. I love him to death, but damn it, he can be seriously oblivious to the world around him.
Work has been busy, but it's good. I like being busy, even if some nights I swear it's gonna kill me. I dislocated my thumb years ago, and it's weaker than my other thumb, and it likes to pop and crack a lot. So I have to find ways to work around using my thumbs, and drop more elbows, otherwise, I won't last long as a massage therapist.
Jon and I finally got around to going to Half Priced Books.... big mistake. Jess, if you read this.... it's like Ukazoo... only better. We shall go there when you come visit. Along with Cosi for the Sherlock exhibit and of course Lush in either Easton, or Polaris. Yay adventures! But back to Half Priced Books... we spent hours there, and it was awesome. Found Rant by Chuck Palahniuk, Moulin Rouge, and Chicago all for less than $12. Awesome deals.
I made a random trip to Target ( to find those pjs we saw at the one in Toledo, Jess... neither of the ones near me has them ):< ) and found the complete first season of Game of Thrones on BluRay for $30... definite score, usually it's like $50, so I'll take the discount on it I can get. Also managed to snag the Targaryen edition of season three from Best Buy for the same price as season one. Should be here in the near future. Excited for that.
I bought Jess her birthday gift, which she knows about, so I can talk about it. It's an awesome t-shirt. See the pic below if you don't believe me.

Awesome, right? Right. xD And of course, I had to order one for myself too, because it's just that awesome.
I don't remember if I mentioned it before in my past update, but Jon got me to sit down and watch The Walking Dead. Love it! Sooo much. I love zombie movies, but this show takes the cake. It's fantastic. Gory beyond belief and dramatic. Right up my alley.
Is anyone else done with the snow?! Yes, I know Toledo has gotten a lot more than the Columbus area, but damn I'm done with people who can't drive in snow and the cold in general. It's supposed to be 54 on Thursday for us, but that means lots of flooding. It was already pretty bad tonight after our freezing rain episode. Can it be summer yet?
Had a massage today, first 90 minute that I've ever gotten. Needless to say I probably won't be getting anything but those from now on. It was better than a 60 min and allowed the therapist to seriously focus on my problems and it felt wonderful. xD
Other than all that rambling the only thing I can think of is that I want/ need a kitten. I'm not ready, nor is Jon for babies of our own, so I think a kitten is a nice compromise. Right? A little fuzzy bundle of joy. xD
Ayup, I'm done. Hope you enjoyed my ramblings and mishaps for the time being.
Other than all that rambling the only thing I can think of is that I want/ need a kitten. I'm not ready, nor is Jon for babies of our own, so I think a kitten is a nice compromise. Right? A little fuzzy bundle of joy. xD
Ayup, I'm done. Hope you enjoyed my ramblings and mishaps for the time being.
26 August, 2013
This may have been a mistake...
Ok, maybe not as awesome at it would seem. It actually gets pretty boring with nothing to really do. I mean the down time is nice, don't get me wrong. But today is Monday, so Keanu isn't here today, it her day off. Translation, I'm here by myself, so I don't have anyone to chit-chat with. Bleh. xD
Oh, well. It's a paycheck, I'm not going to complain too much about it. Even if info hate this job with a fiery passion, because at least I have one and I don't have to depend on my mother or father to take care of me. It's a nice feeling.
I'm both looking forward and not looking forward to my paycheck on Friday. I missed a day and half because I was I'll and had no voice. Kinda hard to do phone sales with no voice. But I may have made up for it this past weekend, I had some damn good orders and I make commission rather than hourly. So as long as I make at least what I did last paycheck, I'll be happy. That's enough to put a down payment in a used car if I choose to this month. Or it's enough to rent the moving truck to Columbus. So many choices.
This hasn't turned into a rambling blog at all. It's wonderful. What else were you expecting from me? Exactly! xD
On an even more random note, dad got grandma Bond to ride on the motorcycle, it was great.
She hates the photo, something about she's taken better pics, but we all love it.
Emm, Jon finally got his new bass. Two very impatient weeks later. It's so pretty. xD
Hmm, the only other things I can think of to being up would be that I got Keanu to start reading Game of Thrones, and she LOVES it. I feel awesome about that. ^.^; Other than that, I can't really think of anything else to say right now. Don't be surprised if there are several surveys filled out on my other blog tonight. I still have 4.5 hours of my shift tonight to sit through.
Love you all, toodles. Xoxox
30 June, 2013
I like trains.... that is all
This is kinda going to be a rant. Sorry for that. It seems to be all I really do on here anymore. Oh well, It's my blog, I can blog about whatever the hell I want. xD
1) Why is it I do something nice for someone, and am promised payment; I always get walked all over and screwed over? I cleaned the house of a family "friend" and was promised $500 to do so, plus another $100 a month to come back a few times a month to spot clean. Needless to say, I have not been paid what is due to me. I haven't even received half of it. Then after two months of allowing these people to get their finances in order, they have the audacity to tell me that they don't spend money frivolously. I'm calling bullshit on that one. I know for a fact that EVERY time they leave the house to go out, they HAVE to but each of their three kids a new stupid toy. They are behind on rent payments, car payments, bills. And yet, they manage to have wifi, cable, iPhones and all this other unneeded crap. Yet, they can't pay for the things that are actually needed in life. The wife even told me that she'd pay me the last $20 in their account, and if their kids went hungry, then so be it. Who the fuck does that? Oh, I know... people who have no respect for themselves, others and are completely irresponsible. I honestly doubt that I'll ever see all the money they owe me, which means I'll have some lovely time spent in court with them. T-T
2) I've had several people lately tell me that I shouldn't be blogging about certain topics ever, or anymore. You know what? Screw that. I've had this blog since 2008, granted yes everything from before 2011 magically disappeared one day. But damn it, I've worked hard to somewhat keep this blog going, therefore, I shall blog about whatever the hell I want, when I want, and how I want. If you don't like that, there is an unsubscribe button.
3) I've gotten a lot of recent hate about my relationship with Jon. What the hell is that about? I mean really, do people seriously have nothing better to do? We've known one another almost 10 yrs and we've been together almost a year. Get the hell over it. Find someone else to bother.
4) The next person to tell me I need to try harder to find a job is going to get slapped. I put in applications every single day. Even on the days where I am dead tired. I babysit 3-4 days a week for 8+ hrs a day, then I come home and do the house work that no one else has time to do. I don't get paid to do any of that work, except mowing the lawn because that is actually not one of my designated tasks, that and mum/ dad both know how much sun I get when I do mow the lawn about kills my skin and causes headaches. So they "reward" me for that. Even after all that, I still after 3-4 hrs a sleep on a good night, I still wake up and apply to places, I go out and talk to people about getting jobs. So no one, unless they are me has any right at all to tell me I'm not trying hard enough.
5) I hate how much stress this whole move is causing. And what's worse, it's not even the actual move that's causing the stress. It's my father's overall reaction to it. He hates it, and because of that, he's making it a point to make everything he possibly can more difficult for me. Joy. :/
6) On a happier note... Here are these....
And I'm done.
G'night.
1) Why is it I do something nice for someone, and am promised payment; I always get walked all over and screwed over? I cleaned the house of a family "friend" and was promised $500 to do so, plus another $100 a month to come back a few times a month to spot clean. Needless to say, I have not been paid what is due to me. I haven't even received half of it. Then after two months of allowing these people to get their finances in order, they have the audacity to tell me that they don't spend money frivolously. I'm calling bullshit on that one. I know for a fact that EVERY time they leave the house to go out, they HAVE to but each of their three kids a new stupid toy. They are behind on rent payments, car payments, bills. And yet, they manage to have wifi, cable, iPhones and all this other unneeded crap. Yet, they can't pay for the things that are actually needed in life. The wife even told me that she'd pay me the last $20 in their account, and if their kids went hungry, then so be it. Who the fuck does that? Oh, I know... people who have no respect for themselves, others and are completely irresponsible. I honestly doubt that I'll ever see all the money they owe me, which means I'll have some lovely time spent in court with them. T-T
2) I've had several people lately tell me that I shouldn't be blogging about certain topics ever, or anymore. You know what? Screw that. I've had this blog since 2008, granted yes everything from before 2011 magically disappeared one day. But damn it, I've worked hard to somewhat keep this blog going, therefore, I shall blog about whatever the hell I want, when I want, and how I want. If you don't like that, there is an unsubscribe button.
3) I've gotten a lot of recent hate about my relationship with Jon. What the hell is that about? I mean really, do people seriously have nothing better to do? We've known one another almost 10 yrs and we've been together almost a year. Get the hell over it. Find someone else to bother.
4) The next person to tell me I need to try harder to find a job is going to get slapped. I put in applications every single day. Even on the days where I am dead tired. I babysit 3-4 days a week for 8+ hrs a day, then I come home and do the house work that no one else has time to do. I don't get paid to do any of that work, except mowing the lawn because that is actually not one of my designated tasks, that and mum/ dad both know how much sun I get when I do mow the lawn about kills my skin and causes headaches. So they "reward" me for that. Even after all that, I still after 3-4 hrs a sleep on a good night, I still wake up and apply to places, I go out and talk to people about getting jobs. So no one, unless they are me has any right at all to tell me I'm not trying hard enough.
5) I hate how much stress this whole move is causing. And what's worse, it's not even the actual move that's causing the stress. It's my father's overall reaction to it. He hates it, and because of that, he's making it a point to make everything he possibly can more difficult for me. Joy. :/
6) On a happier note... Here are these....
And I'm done.
G'night.
03 June, 2013
It's been almost a month again... I'm so sorry.
It's been awhile since I late posted, sorreh... I was away with Jon for over two weeks. So, let's be honest, I'm not sorry at all.
Not a lot has happened lately. I mean other than my mum is due back from Texas in a little over two weeks now. Really excited for that, I've missed her a ton.
Em, I've had a few outings with Jess and Keanu lately, both of which were a wonderful time, even if our original plans didn't work out. Hmm, I'll be moving at the end of summer to Columbus, that's finally been decided and more or less worked out. So excited for that. ^.^ Though, I'm pretty sure my cat may hate me after the 2.5 hour drive/ 150 mile trip from Toledo to Columbus.
My nephew's 1st birthday was celebrated recently, he's grown so much since I saw him last, it's kinda unbelievable. xD On top of that I got to see and spend time with my sister Marti. Which in all honesty, was very much needed.
Finished the book I've been trying to read for over four months finally. On to the next 900+ page book on my list. xD
Speaking of books, well actually more like shows based on books. Game of Thrones (awesome series btw), is a great show. Granted they do take/ have taken several liberties with it, but it's still a good show. I honestly recommend people read the books before watching the series. Now I say this because, several people I know who have not read the books and watch the show come to me freaking out about the show. Last night was no exception, in fact it was worse than normal. Last night's episode featured the Red Wedding, (click the link if you have no idea what I'm going on about), now those who haven't read the book freaked the feck out when this episode finally got to the scene, in a horrible manner. In fact, here's a general idea of my thought process on people who haven't read the books yet. But to each his own.
Eh, I'm done for now, I'll and post again later in the week. Maybe.
Not a lot has happened lately. I mean other than my mum is due back from Texas in a little over two weeks now. Really excited for that, I've missed her a ton.
Em, I've had a few outings with Jess and Keanu lately, both of which were a wonderful time, even if our original plans didn't work out. Hmm, I'll be moving at the end of summer to Columbus, that's finally been decided and more or less worked out. So excited for that. ^.^ Though, I'm pretty sure my cat may hate me after the 2.5 hour drive/ 150 mile trip from Toledo to Columbus.
My nephew's 1st birthday was celebrated recently, he's grown so much since I saw him last, it's kinda unbelievable. xD On top of that I got to see and spend time with my sister Marti. Which in all honesty, was very much needed.
Finished the book I've been trying to read for over four months finally. On to the next 900+ page book on my list. xD
Speaking of books, well actually more like shows based on books. Game of Thrones (awesome series btw), is a great show. Granted they do take/ have taken several liberties with it, but it's still a good show. I honestly recommend people read the books before watching the series. Now I say this because, several people I know who have not read the books and watch the show come to me freaking out about the show. Last night was no exception, in fact it was worse than normal. Last night's episode featured the Red Wedding, (click the link if you have no idea what I'm going on about), now those who haven't read the book freaked the feck out when this episode finally got to the scene, in a horrible manner. In fact, here's a general idea of my thought process on people who haven't read the books yet. But to each his own.
09 April, 2013
More kinky fuckery
What is it that you absolutely need sexually? Just gonna go with sex in general, trust and love. xD
What is something you have always wanted to try? Heh, lots of things.... pretty much everything at least once
What is something you have never done in bed before? Alot...
What time of day do you like to have sex? ANYTIME of day suits me.
What do you absolutely need to see to turn you on? Heh, a bite on the neck... or even just the thought of one. ^////^
How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander? If it's a full on kiss, not long at all.
If someone was in the next room while you had sex would it make you nervous or excited? Been there, done that... end result?... both. xD
Would it bother you if your bf/gf got naked at a beach or river? Yeah, just a lil bit... that should be for my eyes only
Have you ever faked an orgasm? Nope.
What Part of your body are you self-conscious about? Emm... all of it?
Do you have any sexual regrets? No
If a lover cheated on you would you take them back? It would honestly depend on the situation.
How Important is sex in your life? Right now, it's a huge thing in my life.
How Important is love in your life? Very, can't have sex without even a little of it
What is the biggest fight you have ever had with a bf/gf? When they cheated on me....
Do you believe in make-up sex? Absolutely
Have you ever told a complete stranger something you kept from a lover? Nope...
Have you ever had a one night stand? Nope
Have you ever rebounded and known you were doing so? Nope
Who did you lose your virginity to? Jonathan
When and Where did you lose your virginity? January 2013 and in his bed...
If you could go back in time would you change it or take it back? Nope
Would you go down on your bf/gf under a restaurant? It's a possibilty.
Where would you have sex in public? A park, or movie theatre. xD
Would you ever have sex while at work? Emm, sure... as long as it was with my bf.... that could be interesting. Sex in a warehouse..... that would be very fun.
Would you have sex in the corner of a department store? Probably couldn't get away with that one. xD
Would you have sex in the rain? Yesh
What movie makes you horny? None really.
What is the highest number of orgasms you've had at once? 3-4... I really don't keep track of that o.o
What's the highest humber of times you've had in one sex romp? ....5-6.... it'd been a month since we'd seen one another... lots of pent up sexual tension. xD
How many do you wish you could have? 5-6 was great... but it really leaves you tired... 3 is a good number. xD
What do you like Trimed,Shaved or natural? Emm, doesn't matter to me
Would you have sex in a dressing room? Sure why not ...
What sounds do you like to hear during sex? Moaning.....o////o
What sounds do you make during sex? Soft moaning X/////x
What words do you love to hear during sex? Uh...the usual? "Oh god" "Yes" etc...
What do you yell during an orgasm? Eh, I don't yell.... moaning and such just becomes louder. o///o
How many times a week do you like to have sex? As often as we can fit in our schedules. ^///^
Do you want to try the 69 position? I do.
What are your three fav. positions? Hmm, doggy... cowgirl.... and a cross between folded deck chair and missionary. xD
What are the top 3 erogenous zones on your body? Neck, shoulders and collarbone area...
Top or Bottom? Either or....
Bedroom or other room? Bedroom ... other room... makes no difference to me
Lights on or off? Doesn't matter xD
Public or Private? Private....why public? o.o
Partially or Entirely naked? Prefer entirely, but partial is still fun xD
Oil & Lotion or Candles & Egyptian Cotton Sheets ? Em, neither...
Naughty Videos or Hott Photos? Not big into porn of any type... but photos I suppose
Lacy Panties/Silk Boxers or Leather? A bit of both... xD
Fast & Hard or Slow & Gentle? A bit a both, but slow and gentle is just so much more sensual. ^///^
Standing up or Laying down? Either or
Soft or Firm touch? Both
Under Covers or On top? Either one
Would you ever have sex in your childhood bedroom? I'm counting the room I grew up in as my childhood bedroom (since we moved a lot) ... and I have already.
Have you ever hooked up on a swing set? No, but kinda want to now...
Is there any desire that you want to try that you think is taboo? Emm, tying up is considered a taboo... so yeah.. that. xD
Any New Positions you havent done but want to try? Heh, a lot...
Do you have any sexual fetishes you want to explore? A couple. xP
Are there any secret desires you have never told? Emm, most involve rope, handcuffs and a blindfold
Where in the house is your favorite spot to have sex? Bed, the sofa... honestly... where ever suits me is just fine
What is your favorite thing about sex? The closeness with the person I love ^-^;
What is your favorite sexual setting? Cuddled up in the dark or cuddled up in the early morning
Whats your Favorite position? Like I said before doggy... cowgirl.... and cross between missionary and folded deck chair. xD
Would you ever work out nude? Heh, no.
Would you have sex on the bench press? Sure, why not,
Would you ever fool around in a movie theater? Yep.
Would you ever make a porno with your bf/gf? Only if it were for personal viewing. Lol
Would you ever do a photo shoot in sexy clothes for your bf/gf? I might... I've gotten somewhat better with self confidence lately
Do you think you need sex more or less often than the average person? Probably a little more... at least lately. ^////^
02 March, 2013
Boredom yet again has taken over again
Jonathan, Martika, Keanu, Eric
Do you have Netflix?
Yes, and no... if that makes sense... thanks sissy xD
What are you doing tonight?
Curling up on the sofa and watching Once Upon a Time, and texting/ talking to above mentioned people
In winter, would you rather wear a jacket or hoodie?
Hoodie.
Do you wish you were somewhere else right now?
I'd settle for Columbus
Are you excited for the future?
Sure.
How old do you look?
Younger than I am, like 17/18 maybe.
Where are your siblings?
One is at home... as for the other two, no bloody idea.
What are you going to do after this?
Finish OUAT and then watch a movie mor ehtan likely.
What color shirt are you wearing?
Black.
What are you doing tomorrow?
Cleaning Chip and Cari's house for a decent amount of cash.
Do you know anything about baseball?
I now a little bit.
Have you watched a movie today?
Yep.
Do you use those little kitchen clips to close bags of chips that you’ve opened?
Sometimes.
If you made your own survey, would it piss you off if you saw people giving smart ass answers as if you were asking stupid questions?
I wouldn’t care.
Have you ever voluntarily read the Bible?
When I was younger.
Why do you think most teenagers don’t enjoy reading?
In this day and age... no, not realy. .
Is your computer more than 5 years old?
Nope, it's not even a year old.
How much is gas where you live?
Atm like $3.73
Last test your memory, what were you wearing during your last kiss?
Em, I jeans, black lacey top and a jacket. Damn that was three weeks ago and I know it. xD
Do you take walks often?
No, not enough.
What kind of underwear do you wear?
It all depends in all honesty.
Do you think someone is thinking about you right now?
I can think of maybe two
What kind of condoms do you use?
Trojan.
Were you happy when you woke up today?
Yep.
Do you draw on your binders/notes when you’re bored in class?
I used to yeah.
Do you have any gay friends?
Yeah.
How many good friends do you have?
Like 4 or 5.
Do you like the state you live in?
I guess it’s okay.
When was the last time you were on the phone?
About 20 mins ago.
Are you good at writing?
Yep.
Can you keep secrets?
Yes.
What’s your favorite holiday?
Halloween
What is the last thing you ate?
Vanilla Ice Cream.
Did you get any compliments today?
Yesh.
Have you ever gone to court?
Yesh.
What towns have you lived in?
Toledo, Knoxville, Virginia Beach, Pheonix, Sacremento.
When was the last time you drove more than 15 minutes?
Thursday with Keanu.
Have you ever thrown up from drinking?
Nope.
What’s your favorite kind of ice cream?
Mint Chocolate Chip.
When’s the last time you got your eyebrows waxed?
Never have.
Have you ever gotten a spray tan?
No.
Why did you last cry?
I'm not gonna say. >.<
What is something you hate?
Asshats, liars, fake friends....
What is making you angry right now?
Oh, yesh... yesh there is.
Did your last kiss take place on a bed?
Nope.
What are you most anxious/excited for?
Jon coming up next weekend.
Are you satisfied with what you currently have in life?
More or less.
Did you watch the Super Bowl?
Just the last 20 mins, but tbh, Jon and I didn't even really pay attention to that.
Do you like Chinese food?
Ayup.
Are you texting anyone right now?
Jonathan, and Iming/ Texting Martika.
Is anyone else in the room with you?
Nope.
How are you feeling right now?
utterly exhausted.
Are your parents strict?
They were until I turned 18.
Are you a virgin?
Nope.
How many people can you trust?
Emm, maybe 4, 2 for sure.
Do you use hand sanitizer constantly?
Nope.
Have you ever been on a train?
Yep.
Who was the last person who held your hand?
Keanu did randomly while I got my tragus pierced because she thought I was going to hit the woman for having to shove the needle thru a second time.
Have you kissed someone with braces?
Nope.
If you could change your eye color, what would it be?
Green, or bright blue
What is the wallpaper on your phone?
The internal one is Jon and I, the external on is my younger brother Josh and I.
How many pillows are on your bed?
4.
Have you ever had a surprise birthday party?
Nope.
When’s the last time you cried?
The other night.
Who was the last person that made you laugh?
Martika.
What’s the longest you’ve ever talked on the phone?
3 hrs.
Where did you last go out to eat?
Fish Fry at Our Lady of Perpetual Help.
Do you have a hard time admitting you’re wrong?
At times.
What’s your favorite season?
Summer and Autumn.
Have you ever thought that your life was so bad you wanted to give up?
No
Do you have any tattoos?
Not at the moment, that's either going to be my gift to myself after I get my license, or for my bday.
Do you prefer to take showers at night or in the mornings?
Morning.
When is the last time you had pizza?
Eh, Thursday.
When you see people, do you critique how they look or how they act?
Not really.
Have you ever fallen asleep upside down?
Kinda.
How did you get your last bruise?
Pffthaha, as if I.. the queen of klutzes knows.
Who was the last person you hugged?
Mum.
Did you have a dream last night?
Yesh.
If you could have something right now, what would it be?
Time with Jon would be nice.
What body part(s) do you wash first thing in the shower?
Emm, me hair usually
Do you prefer hot or cold weather?
I love Autumn weather best
Have you ever made someone so mad that they broke something?
Yep.
What is your favorite color?
Black.
How do you feel when someone kisses you on the forehead?
It’s cute.
Are you dating the last person you kissed on the lips?
Yesh.
How old are you?
21.
Last place you kissed someone?
Jon's driveway just before I got in the car to head back home to Toledo.
Last person you text messaged?
Jon.
How is your ex doing?
Pfft, as if I know anymore. He doesn't exactly speak to me much anymore, no matter how many times I try to start a convo.
Have you ever done a Chinese fire drill?
Yesh.
Have you ever attended a school dance?
Yeah.
Have you ever been fired from a job?
Nope.
What color are your bedroom walls?
Brown and green.
Do you have a chair in your room?
I have 2 actually.
What kind of phone do you have?
LG Octane. ....piece of shite that is all
23 February, 2013
Updated version of a past survey
What is your favorite sexual position? Missionary for the closeness, Doggy because it's quite fun and Cowgirl because who doesn't like being in charge? xD
How may partners have you slept with? 1
What is your method of birth control? Uh, the usual condom or the pill....
If you use condoms, what brand? *blinks* ... Trojan .... still trying to figure out why you need to know this
If on the pill, what brand? N/A
Besides the obvious, where is the one place your partner could touch you to make you hot? Neck by far all I have to say.
What is your sexin' jam? I honestly don't know.
Are you a talker, moaner,screamer, or all? Uhhh.... moaner, I guess.... x////x
Do you like your hair pulled? I don't hate it xD
Do you like it on top or bottom? Uh, both is good
Drunk sex....dissapointing? or more fun? Wouldn't know
If you could choose one celebrity to do the dirty with, who would it be? Corey Taylor or Gerard Butler :D
If you were paid a gazillion dollars, would you have sexual relations with George W.Bush? Pfft, no.... first off not a real number and second off it's George W. Bush. >.<
Have you ever taken anyone's virginity? Nope
Silk sheets with rose petals or a soft blanket by a roaring fire? Fire, just seems more intimate to me.
Best outfit you've dressed up in for your partner? Can think of a few I WOULD dress up in, but as of right now... I haven't
What could your partner wear to turn you on? Hmm, just wearing a cowboy hat and nothing else is a good start. Or nothing at all, just holding his bass in front of him is a good one too. xD
Any embarrassing sex stories you want to share? Not so much embarrassing... but there's the fail shower sex bit and then the whole going at it with my little brother in the next room and him actually getting up out of bed and closing my bedroom door. xD
If you had to choose a cartoon character to make some lovin' with, who would it be? What an odd Q. Umm, either Ichigo or Sebastian Michaelis
Have you ever walked in on a parent or sibling doin' the dirty? Ugh, yes... my eyes still burn from it.
Have you ever used toys in your love making endeavours? No, but definitely want to.
How often do you think about sex? Meh, often enough, after-all I am human. xD
How old were you when you lost your virginity?.....21....
Have you ever had a threesome? Nope
Have you ever had anal sex? No
Have you ever been to a strip club? Nope
Have you ever worked in a strip club? No, but I've been asked on several occasions if I did. Not sure if I should be offended or take it as a compliment.
Have you ever been involved in an orgy? Nope
Have you ever been called a slut? Oddly enough yes I have.... not sure how that one works out though, have only had on partner.
How often do you have sex? Ooo, as often as I can...
Do you consider yourself a freak in bed? Uh, no I don't ... others might...
Do you like it rough? A little roughness is quite nice
Do you masturbate? Again human, anyone who says they don't is a liar.
How often? Ugh, really? >.< Often enough. xD
Are you horny now? Not particularly.
-This or That-
Whips and chains OR Feathers and silk? Can.. can I have both please? :D
Whipped Cream and cherries OR Ice cream and chocolate syrup?
Uhh, chocolate syrup I suppose....
Kitchen counter OR Shower? At this point, kitchen counter... shower failed. Lol
Doggy OR Cowgirl? Both...
Dirty Sanchez OR Rusty Trombone? Da fuck.... niether
Threesome OR An hour of receiving oral? Threesome = not Rach's thing... so the answer would have to be oral.
Watching porn OR Making your own porn? Uhh.... making O.o
Biting OR Licking? Lil bit of both.... especially on the neck :$
Black Leather OR Pink frilly lacy whatnots?... On me? Leather please. ^^
Rug burn OR Neck hickey? Hickey, though on the neck is gonna lead to much than that.
Fall asleep OR snack after? Fall asleep all cuddled up
22 February, 2013
Update... and a lack of toast... whatever that means
Well here we go. Update. You know, because I never do those. Ok, I don't do them enough. I've resorted to just doing surveys 80% of the time now. Not exactly interesting to be honest. So, I'm going to try (keyword there) to do an update at least once a week or maybe once every two weeks. Here's hoping I can.
So, I graduated. Yay for officially being done with university. The ceremony was nice, not as large as I thought it was going to be, but it went well. The supper afterwards was even more amusing. You know my father's general denial and such in relation to Jonathan and I. So glad I had Jess sitting between my father and I, otherwise I'm pretty sure I'd have been slapped on the back of the head multiple times. And at least now he's out of denial about a lot of it, and though he does not like/ agree with some of it, he accepts it. xD So that being said, here are some pictures from graduation.
So, I graduated. Yay for officially being done with university. The ceremony was nice, not as large as I thought it was going to be, but it went well. The supper afterwards was even more amusing. You know my father's general denial and such in relation to Jonathan and I. So glad I had Jess sitting between my father and I, otherwise I'm pretty sure I'd have been slapped on the back of the head multiple times. And at least now he's out of denial about a lot of it, and though he does not like/ agree with some of it, he accepts it. xD So that being said, here are some pictures from graduation.
After the graduation ceremony I ran away for the following with Jonathan. It was really good to get away, and really nice to be able spend a good amount of quality time with Jon. It was my first real Valentine's day in a relationship; the first one where I got flowers ( and my favourite ones too) from someone other than my parents. It was nice to know that someone cares/ loves me enough to do little sweet things like that for me. I'll be slightly sappy, and post a pic of the really pretty flowers I got from Jon. ^-^
I realise how horrible I am at doing this updates. I don't do much and when I do, it's not terribly interesting. Though I will admit, this last week has been quite amusing. I went with Keanu to a Past Life Regression hypnosis session, that was definitely an experience. Though, I have my own beliefs on what went on in this particular session, it was still something neat to be a part of. After that is was BD's Mongolian Grill, that it was amusing and yummy.
I also went and saw Warm Bodies with Adam. It was a decent movie, not your typical zombie movie. But it was nice to see Adam for a bit, we don't get to hang out nearly as much as we should. And we always have such an odd, but great time when we do hang out. xD
On top of that, I have managed to get both of my parents into Ayn Rand. For those of you who either don't know, or don't remember who Ayn Rand is... she wrote The Fountainhead, Atlas Shrugged, and Anthem. Very philosophical and educational writer, definitely ahead of her time. But she is an amazing author, and I recommend her writing to just about anyone.
I've finally gotten enough money together to take my MBLEX test for Massage Therapy, hopefully not to much later down the road I can get enough to apply for my license and get my background check done.
In my boredom, I started watching a show called "My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding"... that was a mistake and yet it was rather amusing. Let me put it this way, the wedding dresses these gypsy/travellers come up with are either amazing or atrocious. See below for examples for the more atrocious ones... look at how big these damn things are! o..o
I think other than that, the only other thing I have to talk about is that March 13th is the Nile concert, really looking forward to that. After that, April 18th (Jon's birthday), is the 3 Inches of Blood/ Goatwhore concert... can't wait for that one. And of course, April 26th, the first Suspect Earth concert of the 2013 season. That out of all of those is what I'm most looking forward to. I love watching Jon play bass, and I love the band he's in. So basically this translates into, a week spent with Jon, who actually took time off work to be with me "full time" the week of the Nile concert. And then almost two weeks, in April. Translation, Rachael is being spoiled. xD And it also means that when I come back home, it'll be hell for me to go back to my own schedule and even harder to attempt to get any type of sleep. I've become used to and prefer sharing a bed with Jon, so when I come home to my own bed, it's hell to try and sleep because it's damn near impossible for me to get over the fact that he's not there. And oddly enough, he's the same way when I'm not there. xD We're so special, I know.
Eh, that's enough of this. Love you all! Toodles. x3
19 February, 2013
Kinky Fuckery
Here ya go.... this should keep you and myself occupied for a little while. And those who read this, I tag you to do it as well. xD
1: Kitchen Counter, Couch, or on top of the dryer? Oh... all three sound like fun
2: Your last sexual encounter: Good or Bad and why: Good... the element of getting caught in the act is a fun aspect to add in to the mix.
3: A fictional person that you think would be good in bed: I'd love to say the Phantom of the Opera... but he's been a hermit and sexually repressed for so long, he wouldn't last but 30 secs. So I'll say, either Aragorn from LOTR, or Rhett Butler from GWTW
4: Something that never fails to make you horny: Anything having to do with my neck/ shoulders/ collarbone
5: Where is one place you would never have sex: The beach.... sand EVERYWHERE o.o
6: The most awkward moment during a sexual experience was when ____my younger brother actually got up out of bed and shut my bedroom door while Jon and I were going at it in the wee hours of the morning_ xD
7: Weirdest thing that ever made you horny: Eh, It didn't make me horny, but it lead to really great foreplay... Nerdy/ geeky stuff... video games, Star Trek, etc... have always lead to foreplay with Jon and I xD
8: What is the best way to sexually bind someone: Handcuffs, Rope, or Other [if other please explain]: Handcuffs and rope are good... tho leather restraints work well too
9: What is the fastest way to make you horny: See #4
10: Top or bottom? Either or, doesn't matter to me... though top is quite a bit more fun
11: We were about to ____go at it________ but then ____my father came down stairs______ [example: we were about to have sex but then his mom walked in]
12: Is one orgasm enough? Are multiple orgasms necessary? Eh, one is ideal... more than that is just bonus
13: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find: Nope
14: Weirdest nickname a significant other has ever called you: Not really weird... but I get called little dove at times xD
15: Two things you like [or dislike] about oral sex: Can I just say ALL of it... I like all of it..
16: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you: Shower sex atm is the weirdest... only because it failed
17: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?] Yesh, and it was just one of those experiences that isn't easily explained. xD
18: Is it ever okay to not use a condom: If you're trying to get pregnant, sure then no condom is ok... or if you're on BC, but that's not a fail safe.
19: Who was the sexiest teacher you ever had? Em... Idk... Lupu maybe...
20: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience: Strawberries
21: How big is too big: There's a such thing as too big? xD
22: One sexual thing you would never do: Idk... kinda open to just about anything atm
23: Biggest turn on: At this point... it's Jon's little smirk and anything from #4 . xD
24: Three spots that drive you insane: See # 4
25: Worst possible time to get horny: When your parents are home and you know you can't go at it until they've gone to bed xD
26: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans: Ayup
27: Worst sexual idea you ever had: Atm, it was the shower... nothing to grip on to is an issue. xD
28: How much fapping is too much fapping: Again.. is there a such thing? xD
29: Best sexual compliment you ever got: I honestly don't know...
30: Bald, landing strip, Jumanji: Eh, doesn't matter to me
31: Is it good sex if you don’t nut: Depends.
32: Fill in the blank: "If they __bite my neck___, we are fuckin"
33: What your favorite part of your body: Idk, collar bone/ neck... I guess
34: Favorite foreplay activities: It all depends I guess... I like to change it up/ have it changed up
35: Love (>, ....there is no question here... silly survey
36: What do you wear to bed? Usually nothing, or if I do it's usually a t-shirt
37: When was the first time you masturbated: Idr... I know it was kinda young... like 7-8 y/o ish... >.<
38: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself? No
39: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside? Never have, but want to.
40: Have/would you ever have sex outside? See # 39
41: Have/would you ever had a threesome? No, and probably not... I don't like sharing
42: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate? Eh... I don't think any of the things were "random" pretty normal overall tbh
43: Have/would you ever masturbate at work/school? Meh, maybe
44: Have/would you ever have sex on a plane? That could be fun
45: What is one song you’d like to have sex to? Dream Theater's Octavarium.... 24 minutes of awesome.
46: What is something nonsexual that makes you horny? Not always... but watching Jon cook (because it's such a rarity) or he and I dancing... odd I know
47: Most attractive celebrity? Gerard Butler, Viggo Mortensen, Ewan McGregor, and Daniel Craig
48: Do you watch queer porn? why/why not? As in girl on girl? ... Sure. xD
49: If a child was born on the occasion of the last time you had sex, how old would that child be right now? Eh, the child would be about 3 days old... such an odd question
50: Has anyone ever posted nude pictures of you online? No
51: What is one thing that NEVER makes you horny? Eh... idk
52: Do you have stretch marks? (How do you feel about them? Has anyone ever had a problem with them?) Yesh, and every guy I've been with except Jon, has had some sort of issue with them, or my body type in general
53: Do you like giving head? (why/why not) Sure, it's a very intimate act, and it's just as enjoyable to give as it is to receive. xD
54: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in? Sure, I kinda like tattoos. Lol
55: How would you feel about taking someones virginity? I honestly don't know
56: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter? I'm gonna say chili peppers... for OBVIOUS reasons
57: Is there anything you do on Tumblr that you would not like your significant other to see? On my normal Tumblr, there's nothing I don't want him to see... as for my NSFW one, there's probably a few things I'd love for him to see for ideas. xD
58: Do you own any sex toys? (what is it? (how long have you had it?) One at this point in time... and it's almost 4 yrs old. Anyone want to donate to the "Buy Rachael a new sex toy fund"?
59: Would you give your significant other unrestricted access to your Tumblr for a day? Sure, hell, he can have access to it anytime he wants if he uses my laptop. xD
60: Would you be offended if your significant other suggested you get plastic surgery? Yep.
61: Would you rather be a porn star or a prostitute? Porn Star... I guess
62: Do you watch porn? Sometimes
63: How small is too small? Eh, smaller than 5 inches... xD
64: Have you ever been called a freak? Why? Yep. Because of the things I've mentioned I've wanted to explore sexually. xD
65: Who gave you your last kiss? Did it mean anything? Jonathan. And yesh, yesh it did.
66: Would you switch phones with your significant other for a day? Sure... He and Martika would have a blast talking to one another. Lmao
67: Do you feel comfortable going "commando"? Eh, under a skirt yesh... but in jeans no
68: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn't shaved their pubic hair? No
69: If you could give yourself head, would you? I'd never leave my house. LMFAO
70: Booty or Boobs? Can I have both?... if not.... boobs..
71: If you had a penis, what would you name it? Well, since I like video games... I think I'd just refer to it as my "joystick" xD
72: Have you ever been on an official date? Ayup
73: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?) NO.. and never will.
74: If you were a stripper, what would your name be? Oddly enough it's the name of my favourite record store in Columbus, and it sounds like a Bond girl... "Magnolia Thunder Pussy" xDDD
75: Have you ever had sex in your parents bed? (Would you?) Not yet. xD
76: How would you react if you found out your parents had sex in your bed? it honestly wouldn't bother me
77: What was your reaction the first time you saw genitalia? I don't remember
1: Kitchen Counter, Couch, or on top of the dryer? Oh... all three sound like fun
2: Your last sexual encounter: Good or Bad and why: Good... the element of getting caught in the act is a fun aspect to add in to the mix.
3: A fictional person that you think would be good in bed: I'd love to say the Phantom of the Opera... but he's been a hermit and sexually repressed for so long, he wouldn't last but 30 secs. So I'll say, either Aragorn from LOTR, or Rhett Butler from GWTW
4: Something that never fails to make you horny: Anything having to do with my neck/ shoulders/ collarbone
5: Where is one place you would never have sex: The beach.... sand EVERYWHERE o.o
6: The most awkward moment during a sexual experience was when ____my younger brother actually got up out of bed and shut my bedroom door while Jon and I were going at it in the wee hours of the morning_ xD
7: Weirdest thing that ever made you horny: Eh, It didn't make me horny, but it lead to really great foreplay... Nerdy/ geeky stuff... video games, Star Trek, etc... have always lead to foreplay with Jon and I xD
8: What is the best way to sexually bind someone: Handcuffs, Rope, or Other [if other please explain]: Handcuffs and rope are good... tho leather restraints work well too
9: What is the fastest way to make you horny: See #4
10: Top or bottom? Either or, doesn't matter to me... though top is quite a bit more fun
11: We were about to ____go at it________ but then ____my father came down stairs______ [example: we were about to have sex but then his mom walked in]
12: Is one orgasm enough? Are multiple orgasms necessary? Eh, one is ideal... more than that is just bonus
13: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find: Nope
14: Weirdest nickname a significant other has ever called you: Not really weird... but I get called little dove at times xD
15: Two things you like [or dislike] about oral sex: Can I just say ALL of it... I like all of it..
16: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you: Shower sex atm is the weirdest... only because it failed
17: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?] Yesh, and it was just one of those experiences that isn't easily explained. xD
18: Is it ever okay to not use a condom: If you're trying to get pregnant, sure then no condom is ok... or if you're on BC, but that's not a fail safe.
19: Who was the sexiest teacher you ever had? Em... Idk... Lupu maybe...
20: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience: Strawberries
21: How big is too big: There's a such thing as too big? xD
22: One sexual thing you would never do: Idk... kinda open to just about anything atm
23: Biggest turn on: At this point... it's Jon's little smirk and anything from #4 . xD
24: Three spots that drive you insane: See # 4
25: Worst possible time to get horny: When your parents are home and you know you can't go at it until they've gone to bed xD
26: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans: Ayup
27: Worst sexual idea you ever had: Atm, it was the shower... nothing to grip on to is an issue. xD
28: How much fapping is too much fapping: Again.. is there a such thing? xD
29: Best sexual compliment you ever got: I honestly don't know...
30: Bald, landing strip, Jumanji: Eh, doesn't matter to me
31: Is it good sex if you don’t nut: Depends.
32: Fill in the blank: "If they __bite my neck___, we are fuckin"
33: What your favorite part of your body: Idk, collar bone/ neck... I guess
34: Favorite foreplay activities: It all depends I guess... I like to change it up/ have it changed up
35: Love (>, ....there is no question here... silly survey
36: What do you wear to bed? Usually nothing, or if I do it's usually a t-shirt
37: When was the first time you masturbated: Idr... I know it was kinda young... like 7-8 y/o ish... >.<
38: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself? No
39: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside? Never have, but want to.
40: Have/would you ever have sex outside? See # 39
41: Have/would you ever had a threesome? No, and probably not... I don't like sharing
42: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate? Eh... I don't think any of the things were "random" pretty normal overall tbh
43: Have/would you ever masturbate at work/school? Meh, maybe
44: Have/would you ever have sex on a plane? That could be fun
45: What is one song you’d like to have sex to? Dream Theater's Octavarium.... 24 minutes of awesome.
46: What is something nonsexual that makes you horny? Not always... but watching Jon cook (because it's such a rarity) or he and I dancing... odd I know
47: Most attractive celebrity? Gerard Butler, Viggo Mortensen, Ewan McGregor, and Daniel Craig
48: Do you watch queer porn? why/why not? As in girl on girl? ... Sure. xD
49: If a child was born on the occasion of the last time you had sex, how old would that child be right now? Eh, the child would be about 3 days old... such an odd question
50: Has anyone ever posted nude pictures of you online? No
51: What is one thing that NEVER makes you horny? Eh... idk
52: Do you have stretch marks? (How do you feel about them? Has anyone ever had a problem with them?) Yesh, and every guy I've been with except Jon, has had some sort of issue with them, or my body type in general
53: Do you like giving head? (why/why not) Sure, it's a very intimate act, and it's just as enjoyable to give as it is to receive. xD
54: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in? Sure, I kinda like tattoos. Lol
55: How would you feel about taking someones virginity? I honestly don't know
56: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter? I'm gonna say chili peppers... for OBVIOUS reasons
57: Is there anything you do on Tumblr that you would not like your significant other to see? On my normal Tumblr, there's nothing I don't want him to see... as for my NSFW one, there's probably a few things I'd love for him to see for ideas. xD
58: Do you own any sex toys? (what is it? (how long have you had it?) One at this point in time... and it's almost 4 yrs old. Anyone want to donate to the "Buy Rachael a new sex toy fund"?
59: Would you give your significant other unrestricted access to your Tumblr for a day? Sure, hell, he can have access to it anytime he wants if he uses my laptop. xD
60: Would you be offended if your significant other suggested you get plastic surgery? Yep.
61: Would you rather be a porn star or a prostitute? Porn Star... I guess
62: Do you watch porn? Sometimes
63: How small is too small? Eh, smaller than 5 inches... xD
64: Have you ever been called a freak? Why? Yep. Because of the things I've mentioned I've wanted to explore sexually. xD
65: Who gave you your last kiss? Did it mean anything? Jonathan. And yesh, yesh it did.
66: Would you switch phones with your significant other for a day? Sure... He and Martika would have a blast talking to one another. Lmao
67: Do you feel comfortable going "commando"? Eh, under a skirt yesh... but in jeans no
68: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn't shaved their pubic hair? No
69: If you could give yourself head, would you? I'd never leave my house. LMFAO
70: Booty or Boobs? Can I have both?... if not.... boobs..
71: If you had a penis, what would you name it? Well, since I like video games... I think I'd just refer to it as my "joystick" xD
72: Have you ever been on an official date? Ayup
73: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?) NO.. and never will.
74: If you were a stripper, what would your name be? Oddly enough it's the name of my favourite record store in Columbus, and it sounds like a Bond girl... "Magnolia Thunder Pussy" xDDD
75: Have you ever had sex in your parents bed? (Would you?) Not yet. xD
76: How would you react if you found out your parents had sex in your bed? it honestly wouldn't bother me
77: What was your reaction the first time you saw genitalia? I don't remember
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